when I am about to have a good cry!
with all those lovely comments all you people leave talking about my smile, I ofcos feel very flattered! But then I am fairly normal and cry pretty easily! I remember most of my friends were clearly shocked when they saw me crying for the first time! "You cry??!" isn't the first question you expect when you are shedding tears. C'est la vie.
So here's once in a lifetime opportunity of seeing me cry. Till you meet me actually. Once you know me, then it won't be a rare occurrence.
This is in Lucknow. Had got out for sight seeing with M and mama and realized had forgotten to take the camera - one job M had given me! He got really upset and thats all it takes for me to start sniffling and then bawling! :p
Thankfully it was a bright and sunny day and the camera in M's N72 was almost as good.
The smile that was begged for. Still not sure if it was OK to smile!
A girl always needs some retail therapy!
And if its shoes all the more better! (totally cute miniature jootis i picked for everyone at work)
And the smile will definitely start coming back!
Add a fun tanga ride to the entire equation
and we are back to being the lovin couple!
How do you guys patao each other after a fight?! :D
33 comments:
Awww......Patao? we do not patao. We just sulk for days......... ..hhhmmpphhh!!
& such cute Juties. I was straining my eyes to see what u were buying. Thank God for teh captions. :)
loved to see the little story unfold thru your face. :-D Patao? after forgetting the only thing he had reminded me about?? Definitely not before a heartless ticking off and a long sulk. :-P
y dont i work with u, no ever gets me miniature jutti's...
hehehe...
Sweet one :)
I to sulk sulk and sulk more...
Awww, thats such a sweet post. Pataoing the right way ;)
how very out of contextly used photos. that is NOT the order in which it happened! but yes, had you not cried, i may not have allowed you to buy a sackful of jootis! that guy sits there to rip-off innocent firangs, not 'native' nawabs!!
thank you for pataoing me before the sulk turns into sulk and sulk and sulk. you the bestest :x
how come none of your readers appreciated the fact that like a true tourist, i was busy with capturing the "almost cried" moment instead of following the solemnity of that tense moment...
???
aww..dont cry abha...me no like :(
and tell vidooshak I did appreciate the "true touristy" nature of that pic ..hehe..
how do we make up?...a quiet hug given from behind usually does the trick ...plus it means everything from "im sorry" to "i forgive you "to "fuck it, lifes too short for these spats"....complete solution...highly recommend it..
"We" do not patao each other.
I patao him! :P
And hey, are you already in Lucknow or are these pics from some time else?
Awww....u cry really!!
dont...u got a contagious smile!! go ahead pass it on!
awww...that's for the almost crying pic :)
I love the way you sat on the pavement to choose the jootis...full concentration et all!
where was cubby? :D
Hahaha...and hubby managed to shoot it? Hahahhaa..I still can't stop laughing :D
no patao would have happened if he would tried to click a snap of me almost crying... lol!!!
and normally pataoing happens over flowers or cuddling and if we are out than just like that smiling to each other
and abha i didnt expect this out of u, is what vidooshak saying right? u fudged the evidence... :) :)
M&A - awwwww! sulking is a bad idea! life is too shorty like avanti says! :D yeah those ARE miniature jootis! hehe!
JLT - oh well! shit happens, no?! and there are always chances to etaliate against the heartless tcking off when HE forgets something! :p
Iya - my heartless colleagues didnt even take them with em when they quit! hrrmmppff!
smita - kyon bhai? itta sulking kyon?! :D
priyanka - now if i think back i dont even remember how we were back to laughing terms! :D
Vidooshak - oh well! i choose the stuff and you bargain! thats the deal no?! :P and i think i must have started smiling you take pictures of me crying! mad fellow! ;)
avanti - i wont cry! ok thats un reasonable. i wont take more pictures of me crying! :p and yes, the hug sounds great and so does the reasoning! even we are dont sleep over a fight kinda couple! :D
D - well as long as you guys make up! :) and no. these pictures are from the last trip in 2006. i had just found out i was preggie! :D
shalini - ooh yes! buckets! :D
~nm - i never realised how funny that could be! :p
monika - oye! tu friend kiski hai?? trusting his accusations! :p ofcos i play around with the order to get my story right! :D tho in this ne i really dont remember and there is no time! and me like your pataoing idea too!
suma - oh well! Cubby was l'il cell then. we had found out two days before leaving on the trip that i was preggie! :D so he WAS there! and avanti and you, the cubby deewani's missed reading his 20 month update! the post before this! how come?! :(
cheers!
abha
Hey you look better with a smile ..don't look good with almost crying kinda expression.
Patao depends on the topic of fight ,if that trivial , he hugs and patao me after sometime , or sometimes we just ignore the fight and become normal. But when its something serious , it involves , sulking , crying , more sulking , saying sorries etc etc.
loved the way you made a story out of the pics.
There is no fixed pataoing style here at our home, it keeps on changing depending on what we are getting annoyed about. But most pataoing is done by D :D
How sweet! And you look lovely even when you cry! Nothing like retail therapy!
And there's no pataoing in this household...self sulks and binges, while the other resorts to emotional blackmail. It's a wicked, evil circle, I tell you!
:( i'd hate to see u cry! me loves smiling abha!!!! :D miniature jootis??? *wishes she was abha's colleague*
i wld have been too mad with the pic being taken to be pataofied easily either .... but shopping definitely helps!
I say that full marks goes to Vidooshak for being right on time ;-) vaise we prefer a smiling you always!!
As for making up, well its not my cup of tea!! A does most of it! The best I can do is to make faces, cook, hug and try to make him smile!
cho chweet! It was smart of u to use the chance to shop! :D As for how we patao each other, we sulk for a little while and then a warm little hug is enough to forget it all ...
Tum rote hue bilkul acchi nahi lagti..me like the smiling Abha :))
Hey, but when it comes to H i used to behave like this early on..abhi thoda sudhar gayi hoon..As far as pataooing goes, its mostly H who makes up, i am the super sulker :))
Aww..how cute! You look cute even when you are about to cry. Your hubby mustnt have been that mad as he took a pic of that almost-crying face :) And your retial therapy is ekdum zabardast. Look at you, sitting comfortably there and choosing the lovely jooti's. I wish I was working in your office!
Hey here from my reader this time, and it wasn't good to see you almost cry, so I was really pleased to see the famous smile coming right back :)
I do the pataoing most of the time... , but he will say he does I guess whoever is more upset gets pataoed :)
awww....so cute!! u even cry so beautifully, girl..but try not to make a habit of it :D
patao, huh? well...i spend an hour and make triple chocolate cookies. N on the other hand, just hugs. yeah, i'm real easy that way :(
swati - oh yes! intensity of fight also decides how one pataoes opr gets paraoed! :D you guys sound perfectly normal!
2B's mommy - good for you i say!! :D
namesake - oh well! you od kiss and make up eventually! no?! :D or is it watching him with YO and EO that melts your heart?! :)
crafty - this time when i go to lucknow, if i get time, i shall pick em for you!! okies? :)
CP - i think i started laughing seeing him take my picture! hehe! ;)
Puja - woman you do so much incl cooking and you say you not good at it! geez! A is lucky!
G - oye! when you comin back to blr?! now SaGa will get upset if you guys fight! hehe!
anu - i was grinning reading the filmi twist! hehe! long time no see! you mean you cry less now?! i hope that day comes for me soon too! i dont sulk much!
HC - well my tears work pretty quick on the man sometimes! hehe! and yeah! iw as standing and trying to buy them. but there was too much variety and my back would have gone for a toss! much easier to jsut sit and do it comfily! :D
IHM - aye aye! whoever feels guilty first usually pataoes! :D
N - can we fight please? or do you make those cookies only for N?! lucky dude i say!
cheers!
abha
Alas, whenever I try to patao, my wife says Aji...hatao! :(
I am surprised to see the tailor made snaps capturing your mood sequentially :)
I mean clicking wife's picture when she is about to cry? Rather Gimme a raging bull to tie a scarf.
:O
Cheers!
~uh~
rofl - oh yaar! abhi tak saath mein ho! yaani pat hi jaati hogi eventually! ;)
uh - ah! i keep rigging the order to get story right! and like i said to someone else, i think i started smiling when he tried to take my picture! maybe i am a weird woman! ;)
cheers!
abha
Such a cute post ..a story unfolding in pics and I gather from Vidooshak's comment u r a good story teller ;)
Loved it :)
Cute pic of urs.
Lingerie Alley
But you look wonderful whatever way you are.
patao-hmm, i do that all the time,
now he is learning to do it too.
hope he learns all the right nuances of the job.
mampi - good for ya! better late than never i say! ;)
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