Wednesday, April 29, 2009

lucknow in pictures! :)

There was a lot of discussion (by my standards) about whether we should go to Lucknow for the shaadi. For one all this recession talk has made everyone very wary of taking chhuttis. Plus there was the cost factor. Since there are no direct flights, BLR - LCK, the fares are perennially quite high. We thought there are only as many occasions we can miss because of money and time issue and booked our tickets to Lucknow for Ooi Bua's shaadi (Cubby speak ofcos, lest you think we have someone called ooi!).



Cubby remembers this Bua and her fiance well enough (they had given their "hemmets" to Cubby to play with when they visited us, making them demi-gods!) and we kept telling him we will be going for their shaadi. The excitement was all there, the trip to the airport, sitting in the aeopane and the biggest thing, the chance to meet Daadu! :D



Turned out to be quite a trip eventually. Cubby did do his fair share of whining and being a pain, yet lots of fun was had too! Vedu bhaiyya was there and he would keep an eye out for Cubby and try and play with him, which wasn't responded to by Cubby much to my chagrin! But when they did get along, it was total dhamaal. Everyone thought they were saga bhais, even twins by few myopic aunties! :p



Our camera Jinx in Lucknow continued and we forgot to take the camera on the shaadi day. Thank God for grainy cellphone camera pics! Ooi Bua married a Gujju/Kannada boy and they didn't have to many dancers in their baraat. So we all joined in. Ofcos, we just needed a bahaana to dance and ladke - ladki waale didnt matter.



I might do it in parts, the Lucknow pictures considering there are just so many! Lets see how it goes!



Waiting for his coffee and sandwich at BLR Airport CCD! :)


"Chotta Saamaan" Enjoying the trolley ride at Lucknow airport while we wait for our baggage to appear!




The haldi ceremony on wedding eve!



I quite enjoyed being the "bahu" and jazz and being a part of all the ceremonies! Made me feel all grown up and even more a part of the family! :)

Waiting in line to get the "Mehendi" done!

And just to avoid feeling too old, hung out with kids most of the time. M had won them over completely and these were kids he was meeting for the first time and they weren't l'il babies either! And since he looks "enger" (as an ex colleague had once told me), they all called him bhaiyya and me, by that virtue, "didi"! Yipppeee!




Finally my turn! :) The dude was maha quick!


I just love mehendi! Me thinks this was just about the 2nd time I was getting mehendi done post shaadi. Ofcos, that time I was waited on hand and foot and had the mehendi on for a whole night with nimbu ras and laung sek happening for colour. This time it was off within an hour and hands got wet cleaning potty pretty soon afta that! Hehe! Fun thing was I fed Ooi bua (the bride), her sister M bua and another cousin S Bua simultaneously since they all had mehendi on both hands. They all sat around me and i kept feeding them spoonfuls turn by turn! :D



Cubby in his chikan kurta and dhoti on wedding morning! isn't daadi's choice really good?




Nagaada! Nagaada! Nagaada Baja!




Bhaago! They were a blur like this photo with all the running around that happened!





With so much bhag-daud, dhoti got adjusted often! :p




Moms might be wearing pretty sarees, but still will sit on the floor and feed the baccha while the father is working on the distraction bit! :)





Frog prince, anyone?! :p With so much masti and shaadi ka khaana, neend toh aayegi hi naah?! :)




There are Uggies (Hugs)! :) Thats vedu bhaiyya!




And THEN there are HUGS! :) Chhota netas wearing the left over garlands meant for the baraatis and having total fun!


Thats that then for this post! The recption and daadu's birthday pics in the next one! :)

38 comments:

Deepa said...
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Anonymous said...

Hi abha,

looks like cubby stole the show in lucknow with his super cute chikan kurta.....

btw, ive been reading your blog for a realllly long time now and i think its super cool, jus like u!!

Cheers and loads of love to cubby,

Deepa

Amritorupa Kanjilal said...

hi abha- thank you for discovering my blog so that i could discover yours... this was so much fun! cubby is adorable. :)
loved your photographs. also loved your style of writing... promise to be back every time you post :)

and thank you for visiting me. Rivers I Have Known is not exclusively a rant-blog, but it has a lot of rants, as well as poetry, stories, pictures and commentary that you might like....
if you liked it please become a follower, so that i can share with you whenever i write... its nice to have fun people like you as readers...
already waiting for your next post :)

Vidooshak said...

Awwww.... this was like those unending soaps on TV. This episode ended just when things got interesting. You made us relive those fab days. Waiting to read Part 2, even though I was there!!!

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said...

Awww! What a cutie pie that son of yours is. That kurta is so lovely and summery too. Sigh...I have this thing for ethnic clothes and luckily there was an occasion here (today in fact!) where I got to dress my boys up in kurta-pajama.

Your smile is as radiant as ever. Am so glad you went for this trip. You're right...there's only so much that one can deny oneself. Cutting corners is good, but it always makes these splurges feel more special and, as you say it, DHAMAAL!!

Monika said...

ww......great update. I am so glad u all decided to go & had so much fun.
Cubby looks so cute in his dhoti/kurta
& what do I say about your smile? It light up the room.
Looking forward to more pics.

Anonymous said...

OMG Cubby looks sooooooo adorable!
i love him!

looks like he had loads of fun, n so did u! lol @ frog prince. mom says i used to sleep like that when i used to be ill, and she wud roll me to my side after i'm asleep!!

now being a typical hog, i must ask: menu mein kya tha???? :P

Anonymous said...

Hey Abha, Loved seeing all the pics. Cubby looks so CUTE in his lil dhoti :)
And I had never seen a guy applying mehendi before, good to know that guys are doing this too :)

Smita said...

Adorable snaps :-)

Cubs sleeps in that manner???

Chooo sweet :-)

Dee said...

How cute is he??

And pls to show us a full picture of u in a saree.. From what we see, u look very very pretty.. :)

Cantaloupes.Amma (CA) said...

Following your blog for a while ... commenting perhaps the first time.

Your little boy is lovely and so are you !
I hated marriages growing up ... but now just love all the fun and socialising part of it !
So glad you all had fun !

PI said...

LOVELY post. awesome pics. made me smile again and again :)

eye-in-sty-in said...

Cute kiddos and they do look like real bros.

Unknown said...

omg...cubby looks so handsome in the dhoti kurta! and that pic of him sleeping butt-in-the-air is so like the Munchkin!

Anonymous said...

I had to read the post all over again, just because I couldn't see anyone but Kabir during the first read :-) That chikan kurta is super hot!!!!!
And yes dear, Mommy dearest might spent thousands on her sari, but for the kid, its nothing more than a table spread (speaking from my own experience :-) )

Anonymous said...

lol@your captions!

hey i have tagged you... do take up whenever free

Just Like That said...

LOL at sari on the floor bit.
that's our lot, what-to-do...
But YaYY!! finally have met Cubby and all I can say is tht I should've done it ages back. He's every bit as cute as his foto. Sonny boy and I say maiyyyyyyle!! every now and then at home and laugh at each other...

Mama - Mia said...

Deepa - hey!! and welcome!or rather thanks for delurking! its only when you do, do i find some more super blogs! loved reading S travails! :)

LGL - hey! ;) i was kidding about the rants! i read some more posts too! LOVED the crab bit too! see ya around!


Vidooshak - lets see when the inspiration strikes again! :D

namesake - yeah! kids look so darn cute in their ethnic stuff! and am indeed glad that we splurged and made! wish the chhutti could have been lonegr tho! c'est la vie!

M&A - awww! thankoo muches!

CS - thankoo! i think all kids do bum in air bit! :p as for khaana, it was vegetarian stuff! but yummy! kachoris, awesome subzis, super kebabs! oh! the list is endless! :D

priyanka - yeah! now that you mentioned it, neither have i seen guys applying mehendi! the guy was darn good too! :D

cheers!

abha

Mama - Mia said...

smita - thankoo thankoo! he doesnt always sleep like that! thios position is mostly around the time he is gonna wake up! :D

Dee - terribly cute, i tell ya! :p and no full pic in saree at shaadi! reception there are! will put those up next! :D

CA - thankoo! :) and i used to hate weddings at certaon point too! but now me love it! its the only chance you get to meet entire khandaan and make merry! :D

PI - thankoo! :D

Eye-in - merci beaucoup! and they might look like real bros, but TWINS?!:D

avanti - yeah! kids so look so damn cute being frog prince, dont they?!

Puja - l'il traditional clothes are so damn cute! :D and youw ould know betterconsider you wear sarees so much more often!

MiM - yeah sure! leme check it out! :D

JLT - now make sure you come home least once a month with sonny boy and we will all maiyyllee! :D

cheers!

abha

Unknown said...

OMIGOD. He's grown so. And looking so adorable. *kala tikka*

magicalsummer said...

awww....cubz is so adorable - he looks so cute in his dhoti and kurta - yes, great choice by grandma. and you look lovely and so 'grown up' in your saree - where's the one of you in that hot magenta number? put that up too abha

aMus said...

his sleeping pose floored me!

please take one sentence from every comment before me and put it together for my comment...

and uggie to the absolutely adorable boy in the dhoti :)

Iya said...

i juts love Cubby's dress on shadi day...
i love weddings and mehndi..sis i law got married in jan and i am still to get over it!!

Indian in NZ said...

So much fun !! Loved the 'frog' pose..Is he cute or is he cute ???

Indian in NZ said...

So much fun !! Loved the 'frog' pose..Is he cute or is he cute ???

Monika said...

awwww i love the snaps and the one in the frpg pose adorable

BTW u look pretty too

Mama - Mia said...

kiran - thanks! i hope he turns out to be ahnsome like the brat! tho our kid doesnt have genes on his side! hehe!

mags - thanks mags! and all the compliments will be duly delivered to grand ma too! :) and the hot magenta number, thats for part 2! i am too vain to NOT put it up! hehe!

suma - am sure your kids slept butt in air too! me thinks all kids do! and what? no compliments pour moi?! ;)

Iya - yeah! arent they dhamaal! :D

cheers!

abha

Anonymous said...

Lovely Lucknow photographs Abha :) Cubby looks adorable in dhoti and he looks comfortable too, totally bindaas and having a great time!! I can picture a little blur here one moment, there another...

Weddings are a great time for kids, some even manage to play some nagada!!

I loves mehendi too, the fragrance specially...

K 3 said...

Looks like a fun trip, Cubby is sooo adorable, as always! :)

Anonymous said...

Nice Abha....looks like the trip was a lot of fun! Cubby looks so cute in his dhoti-kurta :) I love mehndi too. DIdnt u take a pic of your hands? And the frog prince pic is too cute. I can just imagine the masti he did just by looking at that pic :) (though the pics helped :p )

Unknown said...

yay - lovely pics. love love love his dhothi + kurta.
And he sleeps like that too? I thought my son was a bit bizarre cos that's how he prefers to sleep.

Anonymous said...

oooh i love picture posts!!:D
i'll tell u my favorite pics... the one with cubby in his dhoti(dadi's choice rocks...) and the one in which he is sleeping on him tummy.. too cute!:D

BabaJain said...

All my days with him are great, but these three days were super great. Whenever i will feel low, will read this post to peapup. Will always cherish the confidence with which he slept by my side when u both went shopping.Dadi's choice for him were super.

Toonfactory said...

Hey the post is really cute & Cubby is lukin ultra cute in Indian Attire... :) Shaan-E-Lucknow!

Mama - Mia said...

IHM - oh well! photos can be deceptive! he whined and was clingy for a large part of the time! but when he was being himself, man he was fun and cute! :) and yes i love the mehendi fragrance too!

K3 - thankoo! :D

HC - my mehendi wasnt elaborate enoughj to warrant pictures really! :p and yeah the butt in air pose is damn cute on every baby! :D

coffee - :)me thinks all kids manage to that! bum in air! :D so BB is not bizzare! :D

mandira - what? no fav photos of me?! ;) thanks! :D

Papa - oh well! he loves you SO much! am glad you guys share such special confidence! :)

Toon ji - thankoo sir! shaan - e - lucknow indeed! :D

cheers!

abha

aMus said...

one compliment per post and person only! recession hai bhai!

Rohini said...

Awww..... His dhoti-kurta is too cute for words!!!! And his sleeping posture made me laugh :)

Mama - Mia said...

suma - aaj kal log kisis bhi cheez ke liye recession ka bahaana dete hai! :p

Rohini - thanks! am making him wear this stuff every now and then so that it gets used! teamed it with jeans the other day! maha cool! :D

cheers!

abha