Monday, September 8, 2008

Khaana and Khilaana Troubles with Weekend Masti!

Firstly let's get "How were the modaks?" question out of the way! I spoke about my plan to make them here and now I am answerable!

If this sounds like they were quite bad, yes!! That's what happened and which is why the tone is grumpy!! :( The filling tasted perfect and the coating seemed OK, but together, they just weren't what they should be. Add to that, having your MILs around to witness the failure... well! Lesser said the better. Hehe!
While the hope was still alive, smiles happened

All I kept saying was i tried. Probably there will be a next time and they MIGHT not turn out to be total disasters! Yes! We live in hope. I am not called an eternal optimist without reason! :)

Thanx for wishes and prayers anyways! :p

The week has otherwise been eventful too, yet again not in good sense. Cubby has been down with a BAD case of cough and cold for almost 15 days now. After 6 days, we finally started off on antibiotic and it's still far from OK. He has lost his appetite and every feeding session is like a war that begins with crying and ends with puking. He is OK rest of the day when not being force-fed. The cough rears up it's ugly head starting evening and gets worse by night. The medicines help him sleep, but am looking forward to getting my sunshine baby back. It's weird to see him whining and grumpy all the time, not to forget, awfully clingy too.

Even otherwise since he turned one eating has become a major exercise and I am at loss what to do. He creates SUCH a ruckus that at this point of time it's impossible to feed him in company without them thinking we are terrible parents. Earlier, we could go wherever, whenever with Cubby 'coz we knew he will eat on his own time. But, suddenly he likes nothing. The baby who used to eat everything from his and our plate is refusing to get even a morsel down his gullet without putting up a solid fight. I though he might be bored of his own food and wants better taste, but he isn't even having food from our plates these days.

The moment he sees food, he starts crying! :( Experienced mother are please to help. TV does no work for him. His one eye is perennially fixed on where the next spoonful is coming from and he shakes his head just at the last minute sending most food flying away.

Am calming down myself with a hope for even the most hopeless saying "It's just a phase!". Escapism is at times confused with optimism! ;)

Our Saturday was spent family hopping. First Good-byes to M's mausi and mausaji who are going for a Europe Trip gifted by their kids. Then a visit to one of those kids and her son who refused to play with Cubby saying "I am a big person, i don't play with small people!" Okkkkk!

The day got over visiting another mausi and family and having dinner with them and heading home. Cubby was pooped by 10pm but too excitable to sleep. We heaved a sigh of relief when he gave in!

Sunday we didn't have any plan. The weather with drizzle and clouds was really nice for a picnic. We thought of Nandi Hills, but M has never driven in ghats and neither me nor mummy can drive. So, we opted to go Janapada Loka which is around 65kms away on road to Mysore.


getting set for the Hogfest!

Of course the place is more famous for Kamat Lokaruchi which serves the famed North Karnataka Jowar Bhakri meals. Totally yummy. The bharva baingan, some leafy vegetable and mixed pulses along with jowar roti on plantain leaf in an open setting is just perfect!

The service here is really warm and friendly. They serve you the way you would at a family wedding perhaps, asking if you would want ONE more jowar bhakri before going for rice.


Old McKamat had a farm!!

One of the servers totally took to Cubby and once done with his duty even showed and let him touch a duck running around the place. Cubby was visibly tickled by the attention and getting to see a real quack! quack! :)

Cubby was sitting on his chair and being a complete G(r)umpy Gola refusing to smile. His weird expressions TRYING not to smile sent me in mad peels of laughter much to his disdain.


The almost non-Smile

how could i NOT laught at such cute expressions!

Heavy lunch hogged on, we went to Janapada Loka which is supposed to be like an arts and handicraft museum kinda place. The entry to the place as such is free, but there is a fee of 10bucks per person if you want to see the actual museum. The museum itself is quite interesting with old time equipments used for cooking, hunting etc kept along with their use and districts where they have come from. If you want to take photos, another 100bucks to be paid.


the amphitheatre

There is a beautiful amphitheatre where i hope we can catch some performance some day.


Lake-view calm

There is a lake (more like a pond) too. The paddle boat was floating all by itself, so I guess it's not functional anymore. But the place surrounding the lake is calm and serene and it feels nice to just sit there and talk about this and that. (I am incapable of contemplative silence even in completely quiet places much to the horror of some of my philosophical friends!).

two steps behind you...

Cubby had a ball holding our hand and walking here and there. He loved climbing the steps of the amphitheatre and even made friends with an uncle when we reached the top.


the Lucky Uncle

None of us had got a smile that the uncle got. MILs was visibly horrified at us handing over our precious one to a dirty looking stranger. But when he held Cubby, he was just another guy who loved babies and who are we to question Cubby's judgement?!

the giggly after-effect of DDhoom Jump!

What Cubby liked more than climbing the steps was coming in our godi while coming down and laughing every time we jumped down from the step with accompanying DDhooom! sending all of us into giggling fits.

with Daadi saying Bye to Janapada Loka

with us! Check out the cool gate!

Everything seen and photos taken, we went back to Lokaruchi to have a refreshing cup of filter kaapi and started on our way back.

We got home in another hour and a half tired but happy. All in all, a day well spent.

Ofcos, the battle of the food and puking sessions happened to end the day with, but EO (not yours Mamma-mia. Eternal Optimist) says this too shall pass

30 comments:

Smita said...

Awww!! Cubby will be fine.
I guess it is a phase which too will pass on :)

BTW u horrible momma..ur poor son is looking so sad and u r laughing at him...a spank to the momma and kisses to cubby ;-)

Mampi said...

Sorry to learn about Cubby's cough and cold. Hope he recovers soon. His pickiness about food is definitely illness induced. But aagey aagey dekhiye hota hai kya-you will run after him and he will give you tough time as far as food is concerned. But given your temperament, I am sure you will enjoy that too.
Cubby's happy fussing over food!

Preethi said...

"I am a big person, i don't play with small people!" .. lol! sounds like Cheeky.. at least the first part! He loves to play at being an adult!

Indian Home Maker said...

Lovely pictures :)
LOL @ OldMacKamat had a farm.
..'the meal on plantain leaf in open setting' is just my kind of meal.

samir said...

Cute Cubby you have there. I love modak's, and I am sure that your's were pretty good. Certainly better than what I could make even if I attempted. I shudder to think about all the bad food me and and wife have created in the early days (and some even now.). That is why I stick to "Gourmet Food", very few can figure out whether it is good or bad.
Samir

Dee said...

Don worry abha, he will b fine.. I am yet to see a kid at without a tantrum.. besides when I have a cold, I kick a fuss to eat as well.. Poor baby..

Janapada loka.. The DH & I were planning to check it out as well.. was it very crowded on sunday... because that damn Mysore Road is very crowded over the weekends...

Bad girl, for laughing at our poor cubby.. Bad.. bad.. bad

Anonymous said...

awww i love your house floor!!! makes me miss india. :)

and hope cubby's feeling better.

Monika said...

Aww....sorry that Cubby is not well. Don't worry abt the food. IT'll get better as his health improves.
The trip sounds nice. Lovely photos.
Hope Cubby gets well real soon.

Mama - Mia said...

smita - oh! if you were there you would have laughed too!! don't teme u didnt smile seeing his gumpy gola photo!! hehe!

mampi - i just hope it is illness induced lack of hunger only! the ruckus he creates is really painful!! oh! and i may be cool othawise, but am terribly impatient!! its a miracle Cubby hasnt got a sound spanking as yet!!

preethi - hehe!! yeah! all kids like to think they are BIG! dont they!! hehe!

IHM - thankee!! yeah! the whole setting is what adds to the experience nad mkes you eat a lot more than othawise! :D

cheers!

abha

Mama - Mia said...

samir - looong time no see!! :D i cannot imagine you cooking anything badly NOW! :) now to learn gourmet food!! :p

dee - yeah! i hope he gets well soon and gets his sunshine back! :) well it does get kinda crowded, not janapada loka, the kamat lokaruchi! if youi can manage a late lunch, try and get there near 230! ofcos they have made a lot more seating now! best is bunk one day and go for a loong drive!! :p

roop - rented ghar!! M refused to step in first saying its too temple like!! hehe!! but we have grown to like it! thanx for NOT noticing the mess in the back ground!! :p

monika - i hope so too!! thanks! :)

cheers!

abha

Vidooshak said...

lovely pics, even if i do say so myself. har har

Anonymous said...

Hey I hope Cubby gets well soon.. Bangalore might be known for its good weather, but as my doc says, it is 'cursed' when it comes to kids.
And as usual, great pics :-)

Anu said...

Hi Abha,

Cubby is soooo cute..How can u laugh at him ;)BTW i do that all the time to my li'l one :))I hope he is allright now..B'lore weather is a nightmare for li'l ones.

I am so missing the jowar roti meals :(( have u tried Kamat in Basavanagudi?

noon said...

Yo Abha - nice pics as always. Ever happy and smiling Abha - how do you do it girl?! Cute bit abt the uncle and how Chubby would only smile for him. And the modaks - I made a bunch and passed it on to my neighbor - I ate only the filling - didn't have time that day - I have not heard from my neighbor since - hopefully she is alive and fine! :)
How do you do such long trips - when does Chubby nap? And how do you manage to give him food? Here it is one big deal if I have ot make long trips - have to pack so much food, change clothes for puke sessions, booster chair - I just can't run around for feeds - blah blah - so tiring to even make a trip!

aMus said...

another place where i've not been...do i really come form bangalore?!!!

first time i've seen a pic of cubby not smiling but ureright teh almost smile is too cute too...and you grinning away ...no wonder the poor dear is so upset..bad momma,:D

as for the fuss in eating, cold does that...it takes time for teh taste buds to start functioning..esp after uve given antibiotics...

don't fret...and do give him more liquids...

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said...

Oh Namesake, don't you worry. Yes, this is a phase. Children go through all sorts of phases where food is concerned! Sometimes they eat anything and everything they set their eyes on. At other times they will only want to eat boiled noodles and sauce, all day, everyday! Then there are time when they will look at their plate with a bored expression and walk away with a disdainful look in their eyes.

And now, thanks to the cough and cold, his appetite will anyways take a back-seat. Make sure he has plenty of fluids and try giving him warm milk at regular intervals. And yes, they do tend to cling when sick!

And where is this place? I can't believe I ever lived in Bangalore! Next time I'm there, you have to draw up a paln of must-visit places for me!

Ciao tour-guide and hugs to your little one! Hope he's much better now!

aMus said...

hey, do collect your BFF award, pls...:)

Mama - Mia said...

Vidooshak - kiss the photographer?! :p

Puja - always heard how this weather is tough on kids but cubby had not fallen ill till date! ofcos he more than made up for it with this bout! hehe! thanx! :)

anu - he seems to be better and we have moved him to homeopathy now. dont wanna OD on antibiotics as far as possible! :) I have not been to Kamat Buglerock!we keep going to bull temple road, par bhool hi jaate hai!!

noon - am sure she is thinking of something to make that can match up to your modaks! :D how do we go on long trips? well this we were out for just like 6hrs odd! and frankly i dont fuss too much about schedules for cubby when going out! i feed him wherever we are, he sleeps in the car to and fro. yeah he can get l'il upsetty (i NEVER call him cranky), but thats OK once in a while! he does have so much fun when we are out!! :D

cheers!

abha

Mama - Mia said...

suma - well! we also discovered it quite by accident and now uts a to take everyone who visits place! close to this is the only 24hrs Cafe Coffee Day! lotsa enthu Bangloreans drive late into the night just to have a cuppa and chill! and i hope loss of appetite is just about cold!! the way he fights its like he hates eating itself! :(

and thankee for the award!! :)

namesake - :) aye aye mommy of two!! he seems better now! keeping my fingers crossed and touchwood!! :)

you come to bangalore!! am sure together we will discover lot more!!

cheers!

abha

Anonymous said...

Oh - poor poor baby. It must be so hard on you that he doesn't eat.

The pic where he is refusing to smile is so so cute!

I hope he feels better soon.

Anonymous said...

I am sure cubby will be fine hon, hang in there!!!!

Mama - Mia said...

ss - yeah! am quite sure its harder on us than them, this not eating thing!! hehe!!

chandni - yeah! he is already lot better and was dancing on all the songs in Rock On even half asleep!! :p

cheers!

abha

Shruthi said...

Hi Abha! Had been meaning to catch up with your posts for a long time now - finally did it today! Cubby is adorable - and your smile is as sunny as the comments you leave on my blog! :D

Lots of cheer to you! :)

Maggie said...

That picture of you and Cubby giggling at each other is priceless!

Mama - Mia said...

shruthi - thanx a lot!! am glad you found the time!! i alos do love reading about Puttachi's antics!! :)

maggie - thanx a lot!! when the joy is so unbridled, how can the photo be bad?! :D i aint too modest, am i?! ;)

cheers!

abha

D said...

Cubby looks absolutely cuddly! Love the pics.

Mana said...

I loved Cubby's solo pic :) Hope he's doing fine now.

Mama - Mia said...

D and Manasa - thankee!! :) the compliments shall be passed on to Cubby!! :D

cheers!

abha

Swaram said...

Nice to read ur blog! Been here a couple of times before. Feels so nice to read abt Bangalore: my abode for 23 yrs. And ur cubby is a real entertainer.

Mama - Mia said...

swaram - thank you! :) am glad you enjoy nostalgia trips into bangalore! and yes, Cubby is 24/7 entertainment channel! :D

cheers!

abha