Monday, March 2, 2009

No separate wash for Cubby's clothes now!

Wondering about the title?


You remember I mentioned in his 19months post that we are trying to potty train him little more earnestly now? That he has started telling us about the big job often enough, but pee training seemed quite some time away!


I am back to bite my own words. Past one week Cubby has been consistently telling us he wants to pee during his waking hours! And yup, I am mighty thrilled and terribly proud! Ofcos, we are still not confident enough to go diaperless while going out(too early for that!), but I have a feeling the day wont be too far! Yaayyyy!


The things motherhood can make you jump around about. Even my colleagues haven't been spared from sharing the happy news!


So now that there are no su-su and potty nappies and shorts, we don't need a separate dettol laden machine for wash for Cubby's clothes. Today was Day 1 they got washed with our clothes itself!


Another big yay to saving of paani and electricity! :p


Night training we shall start when we ready to sacrifice our sleep! Till then a diaper day suits us just fine. Amma was heart broken to throw an almost perfect nappy pad we use post bath. Ofcos that is just a matter of pure luck if he doesn't pee during his afternoon nap. All in good time.


Weird things is that the dude calls both the things potty, so am trying to teach him to say su-su for the peeing. Lets see when he figures that out!


Potty training was one the things that was getting me very worked up. I had heard of friends whose kids got trained before they even turned one. I tried even at 4months me thinks inspired by a relative. Obviously it was extremely boring to hold the kid on basin and go sssss forever!


Tried again at about 1 year and he refused to sit on the potty. Would want to run away everywhere. We stopped again. Then started at around 18months. WE tried to give him paani and just make him sit. A whole cheer leading routine was done for every success with back patting and good job thrown in. In a very generous measure actually! Oh and book reading definitely helped! :p


Within 10days he was telling us when he wanted to do potty. We kept taking him for su-su every sometime when we were at home. Sometimes I would spend 10mins in the bathroom doing very variation of sssss and sshhhh sound and coming out tired. Then the kid would pee within two mins of coming out! Or I would be thinking I will take him in 5mins and he would pee right then making me say Close! :p


Ofcos everytime he did su-su in nappy we would tell him that he should tell us and perhaps that helped too.


The thing I also realised is that I cannot make him stand still in one place in the bathroom. So I just let him be. Walk around, explore the taps, buckets and mugs and have fun. It didn't matter if he peed in that particular corner ONLY. There is plenty of time to teach him that. This bit worked much better than holding him tight in one corner of the bathroom.


Plus I wasn't sure if Amma was taking him regularly during the day when we were at work. I guess she was, at least every now and then. Now after a l'il over a month he is day time trained and it's quite a relief.


I have a feeling that by delaying it to an age where he is able to understand instructions and is eager to learn, our job became easier.


Or chances, we just got plain lucky. It also helps that its summer time and we can Cubby in just shorts without having to make him wear pajamas to avoid cold and all that. The frequency of peeing is also lesser because of all the sweat.


Whatever it is, you are seeing a proud mommy here! :D


So my darling son, Good Job! Or Goobjaab as you say it! :) (its sounds like Boob Job most of the times!;)


ps: Touchwood and hope the dream run continues! :D

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

LOL on Goobjaab!!!
Cubby sounds like such a cutie! I heartily wish for successful training results! :)

Monika said...

Yay for Cubby! Well done! :)

I had a hearty laugh about your comment about the wash basin & going ssssssss....lol.

Preeti Sharma said...

mothers are arguably the only species on earth that can speak of toilet activities with true pride and excitement. where would mankind be without us!

Iya said...

abha, this is like a guide to good parenthood.. once i have a kid i'll be reading through all ur archives..
lol on his way off saying goodjaab!!!

Preethi said...

yay Goobjab!!!! :)

aMus said...

hey congrats proud mama!

and this sentence "I have a feeling that by delaying it to an age where he is able to understand instructions and is eager to learn, our job became easier." says you hit the nail right!!!

lol at boobjob!

WhatsInAName said...

Really Abha, he learnt fast, touchwood. very very goobjob :P

Mamma mia! Me a mamma? said...

Hahahaha! Funny, funny, funny all the way, Namesake!

It's amazing isn't it, that we can go on and on about potty, su-su and the like with such enthu!

Whcih reminds me...I have a milestone to celebrate too...two weeks and no diapers at night for the YO! (touchwood)

couchpapaya said...

lol @ gooobjob, cubby keeps growing exponentially, am happy for u guys :D my sil said that travelling got soooo much easier after the potty training happened ...

Anonymous said...

hey thats great :-) N is 17 months and does not do susu in the bathroom. I havent even attempted potty in the toilet. He is always running about touching taps and buckets in the bathroom and never pees. maybe even i'll start at 18 months. Congratulations. It is a BIG deal for a mother once the kid is susu trained at least in the day time.

Unknown said...

yay for that! thats a very important thing you guys got done...my Mom has been harassing me to start potty training...but i'm in no hurry till the kid starts understanding a little more..will save some tears too..well done cubbyr!

Anonymous said...

Another fun milestone.
Yeah for savin paani and electricity.

My youngest is 2.5 yrs old and he isnt even interested. I am going to start in the summer when its easier.

~nm said...

"The things motherhood can make you jump around about." -- So true.

I think you and cubby are doing a good job at being loo trained at this early age.

Vidooshak said...

The things you blog about!!!

"I have a feeling that by delaying it to an age where he is able to understand instructions and is eager to learn, our job became easier." I think this was the most apt phrase here. Don't delay too much and don't rush.

Bottomline, treat him like an equal. It is amazing how much he responds when we don't "talk down" to him. I miss my BABY already :-(

Anonymous said...

har har har

When my younger dude was in the transition of getting out of diaper, he refused to pee unless he is taken to the toilet and made to stand on the commode seat. Then he used to pee INSIDE the diaper and insisted to flush.
How cool is that ?

Btw, I tagged you here- http://udtahaathi.wordpress.com/2009/03/02/25-secrets-i-have-never-shared/

~uh~

Indian in NZ said...

So true - only mums can feel so proud and blog about the whole toilet training thing ! Its such an important milestone.

Mama - Mia said...

craftyshines - thankoo!! :D

M&A - thankgoo! and yes, the basin bit does seem funny if i look back now! :p

Preeti S - hehe! so so true! i laughed reading your comment! :)

Iya - oh! pls dont take parenting tips from me eva! am a bad example! :p

preethi - yaayyy!! :D

suma - miles to go before we sleep tho! :p but yes, i am dmn proud! :D

WIAN - he did! touchwood! am totally lucky i tell ya! :D

namesake - woohoo for the YO! :) high five from Cubby! :D

cheers!

abha

Mama - Mia said...

CP - i cannot imagine something more convenient than diapers actually! hehe! and Cubby is growing way too fast!

akamonica - he will re! Cubby does potty in his potty. susu can be in potty or bathroom depending on where we take him. N is 2 months younger! all in good time i say! :D

munchkin - you bet! you will save his tears and yours too! whats the rush anywayz! i think our mothers are just uncomfy with the diaper business! :p

asaan - true! whenever kid and mom feel ready is a good time! thats all that matters, no?! :)

~nm - early or no, i dunno! it just turned out to be right time i guess! :D

vidooshak - i have you to thank for showing at least an iota of patience! :) you managed the first few crucial days and rest was a breeze! thankoo papa! :)


UH - what can i say! he has inherited your SoH! :p thats so cute really!!! :) will check out the tag!

2b's mommy - yup! funny its not even embarassing! :)

cheers!

abha

Monika said...

this little man surprises me everytime... i am so proud... good job...

i have just started with Ojas actually just introducing him to the concept now ;-) he refuses to sit on the potty too so its just the pee training now, more details coming up in his monthly post on saturday

and ya

"The things motherhood can make you jump around about."

that is so so so true... i feel happy on such silly small things

Anonymous said...

"Another big yay to saving of paani and electricity! :p"

So potty training also makes one environmentally friendly. Cubby, you rock!

Boob job? Like I said, the kid's a rock star.

Quirky Indian

Artnavy said...

wonderful!! well done mama and cubby

for the nights- no need to lose sleep- just ensure he does susu just before going to sleep- he is more likely to sleep right thru.- at least it was that way with anush

Lijy said...

lucky you...

I have tried everything to make Jason do his thing in the potty. But its always a big NO.

though su-su is a bit controlled now. He can go diaperless a nights and short distances. But I always carry one with me for emergency.

Anonymous said...

Good Jaab mama :) We are proud of little cubby and his momma too!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations Abha!
I feel its truly such a HUGE task to potty train our lil ones. I can imagine your joy. Mera number kab ayega? ;)

-Priyanka

Noodlehead said...

congrats, y'all!! cubby is super :)

now it's my turn to whine about how slow BB is :D she's pee trained during the day but will only poop anywhere other than the bathroom...and will asked to be cleaned once she's done. sigh, i think poopy training is a distant dream. me hopes playschool will help with this :(

Mama - Mia said...

Monika - you started with Ojas already? very cool! he si quite a champ himself, isnt he?! :)

QI - i am so glad to see you here even on a potty training post! :p and it SOUNDS like boob job! hehe! but he is a rockstar alright! :p

art - if it works thatw ay, i will be maha khush! will attempt in some more time! when did you do it for Anush?! :)

Lijy - wow! diaperless throuugh the night and even outside! thats very cool!

HC - thankgoo! :D

Priyanka - even i always thought so. aur tumhaara number bhi jaldi hi aayega! the effort you take, rang toh dikhayega hi! :)

angie - i always though peeing was more difficult. for one their expressions dont change much unlike potty which is kinda obvious. even cubby does it on his own potty which is these days the centre piece in our house for quick and aesy accessibility! sigh! and dude BB will learn in no time. she can eat with fork and spoon! phw! and you said you would call em when you came to blr! what happened?!

cheers!

abha

Chikki said...

Wow I never thought of using Detol on the clothes, good idea! Although in the US I don't think we get detol, but maybe something similar.

Congrats for potty training, it's a major milestone. And makes things so much easier! Good job, you guys are great parents!

Mama - Mia said...

om's mum - yeah! we used dettol in cubby's clothes till now! am sure there is an equivalent out there!

and seriously i think we got lucky!

cheers!

abha

Mampi said...

Good luck with the training job.
Lets see a prouder mom of a grown up gabru jawan soon.

Mama - Mia said...

mampi - you are too sweet! keeping up your promise!! and gabru jawaan?? its so weird to think of cubby as a grown up young man! as of now let him be a baby, pls?! :D

hugs

abha