secretive? et moi?!

I Love Lucy tagged me sometime ago to tell you some of my deepest secrets!

It's quite similar to quirks, so i really have to think hard about secrets! In any case my life is quite the open book variety and i hardly have any secrets. But then things you don't know about me are secrets, I guess! :p

So here goes,

- M and me were seeing each other for almost 7 years before me got married, which M was had to be begged and then finally emotionally blackmailed into! Thank god he fell for it! :p

- I cannot wear lenses! At my reception it took me half an hour to get one in and once it got stuck and I had to actually go to an optician and get it pulled out! So now, my pretty eyes are firmly hidden behind thick glasses. Sigh!

- I read in the loo. (don't ya dare say ewwww!)

- I comb my hair only once a day unless I am going out or something!

- I thought I hated Cubby for first two months when I had terrible breastfeeding problems and firmly believed that I was a terrible mother!

- I was always made to act the male part or dance as the guy in couple dance during Ganeshtosav celebrations in our building 'coz I was taller than most guys, had short hair and wasn't too feminine (grrr!)!

- My dad once found I had snucked some books with few dirty pages (I was just enhancing my sex education!:p) in one corner in the kitchen and threw all of them away much to my disdain! ;)

- I cannot make chapatis in any shape whatsoever! Forget round!

- I cannot draw to save my life. I always got borderline marks in that subject just so that I wasn't failed because of drawing!

- I cannot smile without all my 32 teeth showing! (which must be obvious from some of the photos I have put up!:p)

So there its is. My dark and deep secrets! That was a toughie!

Ain't tagging anyone 'coz I think almost everyone has done this tag or been tagged to do it! If someone wants to pick it up, feel free! :)

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SwInGeRs CLUB, anyone?!

Rajat Kapur made a movie called Mixed Doubles a few years ago that dealt with wife / couple swapping or what in popular parlance is called Swinging! How true! Swing from one partner to another! Of course he gave it a desi touch with the couple not being able to go ahead with the whole thing on the said night. (I kinda like such desi happy endings! they keep complications out!). Around the same time I ended up watching a similar themed Hollywood movie, whose name I don't remember now! The husband there has been wanting to spice up their lives by swapping with his best friend and his wife for whom he has always had some hots! With all the begging, pleading and logical(??) reasoning the wife gets convinced.

On the D Day the hubby cannot go through with it and the wife does, if only to keep her of the bargain. The rest of the movie is about how the whole world goes topsy turvy when he has the gall to blame her for infidelity! Geez!

I wonder what makes couples want to this? In a way is it more 'honest' that closet affairs and one night stands? Whatever it is, its not a sign of a healthy relationship!

But that's not the kind of swinging I wanted to talk about! I just want to talk about the good ol' play swing aka as jhoola in Hindi and jhopala in Marathi! :D

I just LOVE the swing! I don't remember when did this fascination start, but it has never ended. I guess it was when i was in school and went to Ichalkaranji and Kolhapur for my summer vacations. Being in Bombay with hardly any parks in the vicinity, jhoola was a not a common thing! I remember the parks being full of kids in summer and having to wait endlessly to get a turn on the swing. Sometimes we had fights too if someone stayed on for too long!

Finally you got your turn. You sit gingerly on the swing as if to test its height and strength. Then you take it all the way back till your legs are straight and it's just your toes touching the ground! All set and you let go with your legs folding under! Up and above! You come down and push your legs back again to get the speed and height you desire! Take it higher than ever before and actually enjoying the feeling of your stomach turning and churning as the swing goes down from its l'il flight fighting gravity! It was your very own sasta and tikau roller coaster ride! :)

Even today I see a swing and temptation to just go and take a swing is just SO strong! I love it as I sit on one and take it higher than I ever could as a kid! The wind making my hair fly astray as my head moves back and forth with the jhoola, as if one with it! :)

There are many parks in Bangalore, but alas I am not a kid anymore. I did try at one close to our place, but the chowkidaar came running with a stick in his hand and loud whistle telling me to get off!! :( It was too embarrassing to try again. Not that it stops me from trying to grab a chance anyway!

So whenever I go to nice big colonies with a kiddy play area, i make the most of the opportunity! Hehe! Just the other day when we went to Corner House at Hotel Airline at 11pm. The place has a kiddy area outside. Everyone was sitting on jhoolas and see saws and enjoying their ice creams. M tol me to go and take a swing! :) I don't know why I said no. By the time we finished the divine Cake A Mocha both the jhoolas were empty (there was a cute couple enjoying PDA on one of the swings) and I just couldn't resist myself!

What a feeling it was! Yet again! God bless the person who invented this thing!! :p

Am hoping to teach Cubby the fun of it someday soon! Right now he just cries on swings and slides! :)

So if you see an old, fat woman going crazy on a swing, stop by and say hello! :D

no wonder it's SUCH a cliched phrase...

this "time really flies" one!

Cubby turned 11 months today and all I can do is shake my head in sheer disbelief and keep repeating time really DOES fly! :)

You have become such a big boy! I mean one more month and we will stop talking about your age in months and start talking in Years! Yes, THAT big!

Everyday you seem to change a little bit more managing to make me laugh in pure delight or pull out my hair in sheer exasperation.

In the last month you figured out how to sit down when standing. So no more crying when you get stuck standing! You have got quite a grip too now. Try getting away when you are clinging to our legs. We need to get some different pajamas to wear at home pronto if we want to save our "laaj" 'coz you really pull those pajamas hard! :p

You have resolutely refuted all my attempts to make you understand which is your nose and where are you ears or what sound this cow make and what does a lion look like. Your whole attitude is as long I know how to use them, what the the big deal. As for rest of the gyaan you seem to manage to just ignore me completely as if I am talking in to thin air!

You still LOVE having people around and you charm their pants off within minutes of them seeing you! Like your Vee taiji says, you are a perfect advertisement to have babies!

You KNOW which side of your bread is buttered. So, the moment you see breakfast plate in daadu's hand, off you go and stand by his beanbag and insist on sharing the food. The spice factor does not seem to make any difference to you! If daadu's breakfast is khatam you will come to the next victim! :p

You LOVE showing off your recently acquired mobility by using the walker. You have also started taking l'il steps with support near the sofa or from one chair to another!

You ENJOY music and dance! It's so cute to see your hands start moving as soon as you hear a rhythmic song! If you are standing you try to tap your feet too! :) You love clapping your hands to lakdi ki kaathi as many times as I sing it with my silly actions!

You have started crawling! Yes! Just when we would think you will NOT crawl now that it's almost time to walk, you started your cute crawl and have already gained considerable speed. It does look nicer than the previous elbow supported creeping! :D

You seem to enjoy listening to stories a little more because you are sleeping AFTER at least one story is over and not DURING the first one!

Your fascination for footwear is unending. I though by now you must have touched enough chappals, but nopes! An unguarded chappal and off you are like a rocket!

You PREFER eating food off the floor. We give you a piece of chapati to eat and you will drop most of it. Play around and come back to eat it... EVERY little piece. I just sigh and say at least he is eating food! :p

That said your LOVE for paper is undeniable. You just love nibbling off the newspapers, tissues, flyers... whatever! It's been a tough job keeping it away from you and pulling out small pieces you hide is farthest corner of your mouth!

You still can't say anything close to Mama, Mommy, Mumma... you get the drift! This is quite annoying when you have said Papa AND daddy!! :( That said, it's a miracle you respond to your name conisdering I call you all sorta weird names starting from poochka to golipi to dhumkichi and what not! :D

I never thought I would have a dozen new things to say about you within a months time!

You are absolutely adorable and seeing you achieve little things and noticing that YOU notice them too is just so much fun!

Love you LOTS l'il CubbyR!

Big hugs and kisses!

Happy 11 months!! You ROCK baby!! :D

The world this week!

Remember this series that used to be aired on DD when Pranoy Roy became the first celebrity TV news reporter and went on to even bigger things. But every Sunday (?) night we waited for him to come and SHOW us what has been happening all over the world where even one week old news was breaking and incidentally useful or interesting!

Well, this one isn't to go on a DD nostalgia trip, its just about OUR world this week. It's been a pretty interesting week when Friday the 13th decided happen on Thursday the 12th instead!

Yeah yeah! You heard me right! I had a small accident with an auto guy hitting my bike on my way home Thursday. It was almost totally my fault since I was in a rush to get home. Thankfully it happened really close to home and it wasn't much. Some scratches and muscle ache, most of which is OK now. I worked half day on Friday and chilled at home for the rest.

Before that one of the days we went to watch Aamir at Fun Cinemas. Dinner happened a cute l'il place called Orange Peel (previously known as Zync Cafe) on Hospital Road, just off Safina Plaza at Commercial street. The menu is continental and food was really yummy. Cubby was ofcos on his worst behaviour and insisted on not eating his food prophaly and throwing all his toys around! He was OK by the time we reached the theatre and slept through the movie! The movie AAmir is really over hyped. It's a tad too slow and though trying to address a sensitive issue ends up being predictable. Can easily be watched on DVD. M kept giving me dirty looks and sunaoed me for god knows HOW long after that! Sigh!

Saturday we had invited a cousin and his family home for dinner. Cousin has two adorable kids, a son (who is insanely jealous of Cubby) and an adorable elder daughter who is around 10! We cooked up a quick Thai red curry and steamed rice and fried some ready to cook starters and everyone settled in our small balcony / landing taking in the fresh breeze and uncluttered view with kids weaving in and out every now and then. LOT of attention and energy was put in saving precious crockery from destruction with Cubby's improved mobility! :D Next time it's paper plates! Hehe!

By the end of the evening l'il nephew V had made friends with Cubby and was asking me sweetly"Can we Please Please take your baby home?!"

Sunday we went to Shopper's Stop to use up some gift vouchers we had. I finally got meself a new handbag!! Pretty different from my usual humongous bags (hubby fondly calls them jholas) to something l'il smaller and hopefully feminine. :p Cubby sat in the pram for first time out there and howled till we showed him it moved WITH him. Even then his patience ran out pretty quickly and we were back in godi!

Evening we decided to go and SEE Lido mall with no better plan in the offing. We reached almost at closing hour and were quite impressed with valet parking and double parking system with cars lifted on top of each other and all that jazz! Rest of the mall was pretty unimpressive. They do have lot of really high end (read EXPENSIVE) brands like Guess and Body Shop etc. The sizes of all clothes seem to have shrunk even more and I felt like one old and fat aunty.

"I felt so unhip that I am surprised my bum didn't fall off!" - Phrase twisted courtesy The Ultimate Hitchhiker's Guide to Galaxy (the 2nd book precisely (The Restaurant at the End of the Universe) which I am in process of reading and thoroughly enjoying!).

We thought of having dinner at the mall, but then decided to go to Indiranagar Dhaba instead. It had been ages and it was such a regular haunt till about 2 years ago! We were glad to find Danny Lamba da Dhaba as is with rickety metal tables, plastic chairs and mosquitoes! The menu card came slightly newer with fewer spelling mistakes, but the plates were still misshapen melamine! We ordered chicken bharta and methi kofta in palak. First bite and we thanked god for not letting danny lamba change his cook or the recipes! :p The food was too good to be true and we all hogged on the food sipping chilled Sprite while trying to keep Cubby sitting on his chair! He loved being in open air and it wasn't too embarrassing when he dropped the finger bowl because on mud it really doesn't make a difference! ;)

M asked Papa if he wants to have ice cream or something and we said Yes!! Then began race against time. It was almost 1045pm and we had to reach an ice cream parlour before the dreaded Cinderella hour that comes an hour earlier in Bangalore. :( Thankfully we did find a Corner House open and had a delicious Cake a Mocha which had bitter coffee flavoured ice cream with warm brownie and hot chocolate sauce! Perfect end to a fun weekend!

How was your week?

Not so quirky!

Emaan's mommy tagged me a while ago to this tag!

These are the rules:1. Link the person(s) who tagged you…(done on top!) 2. Mention the rules on your blog (here they are!) 3. Tell about 6 unspectacular quirks of yours...4. Tag 6 following bloggers by linking them…5. Leave a comment on each of the tagged blogger’s blogs letting them know they’ve been tagged..

So here I go E ki amma.

I LOVE bournvita even now. And I can have it ONLY cold! L'il warm and it goes in the fridge!

I still can't use fork and spoon properly or fork and knife... together! Villager me!

I don't remember my dreams!

I cannot sign the same way every time! (yeah that scares me!)

I cannot apply nail polish OMO. Or even eyeliner!

I can't resist moving when there is dance music on. Least my feet will be tapping!

Is that quirky enough? Well they are supposed to be unspectacular quirks!! So its OK I guess!

I tag The Gypsy Mumma, JLT, Whatsinaname, DDMom, K3 and Snippets

ps: Thanx ~nm for teaching me how to do this linking bit! :D

'Surprisingly' difficult!

Haven't you watched it in innumerable TV serials and movies, when a person enters a dark room feeling all lonely and wondering why is no one talking to him/ her? There is click of the lock and as soon as they enter, there's lights, pretty decoration and smiling friends and family screaming "Surprise!!!!" The person being surprised (surprisee??) screams too and says "You guys!" with teary eyes!

Well, it has never happened to me! That is OK! But I can't even get it right when I am planning it for someone else!

First time attempt was M's birthday coupla years ago. Called his friends, got confirmations, got permission from boss to leave early, called the maid to come and help me, gave a buddy a shopping list, another was to get the cake, planned the menu (pav-bhaji!;)! Phew! I mean there i was, right on track, eh?!

Guess what I decide to do next?? I forget to take the keys to home!!!! AArrgghhh!! This means the key has to come from M, the surprisee! Sob! I manage to ask the buddy with shopping list who works near M, please get the chaabi. I get questioned about why do I need it early. I say I have just invited S n N for dinner, so I need to prepare. Sigh!

Sweet M as unused to surprises as me, believed my story. When we were chilling with S, he said I wish M n her kid were coming. He says it and they walk in within 5mins with a big cake. He keeps mentioning names and they keep walking in! :D He was so kicked and so was I with the pseudo-surprise party!

Next, it happened just yesterday. M was coming back from his trip and I decided to surprise him at the airport. He had luckily sent me the number of the taxi guy supposed to pick him up. I call him and request him to pick us up first. AS luck would have it his cell phone battery dies by evening and we are all dressed up, with nowhere to go. I was pacing up and down, muttering under my breath about stupid people, when the cab arrived all apologetic about his cell getting switched off. We are on our way! I smsed M saying his cab guy had called saying his cell is dead, but he will be there for sure to pick him up. Guess what M says?! He smses after landing saying "If he doesn't pick up my call, I will just book a taxi inside and come" EEPPPSS!

I was left with no choice but to tell him, please don't we are waiting outside with your cabbie! :( Even then, M's expression was priceless as he told me "Woman! You are crazy!" And I know he meant it affectionately! :)

Cubby was also thrilled to see his papa after two whole weeks and within no time we were back home, tired but too excited to sleep! :)

I know I have these flop surprises, but like we all like to say 'It's the thought that counts'!

And what came out of M's suitcase? That's for another time!

What's your favourite SURPRISE!!!! story?!

seeing i to i

Whatsinaname tagged me to do this. As if you actually wanted to know more about me! But hey me like talking about meself! ;) So, here I am!

I am: a happy soul who loves to love and be loved!

I think: that most of the thinking we do is completely pointless!

I know: I need to lose weight so that my back strains itself l'il less!

I want: another baby and ability to forgive and forget... always!

I have: everything I could have ever wanted.

I wish: for happiness in everyone's life!

I hate: people with no civic sense of any kind!

I miss: giggling fits with girlfriends!

I fear: i might become cynical some day.

I feel: happiness is a state of mind and if you have it everything else is a passing phase!

I hear: Cubby babbling and waiting to hear him say Mommy!

I smell: baby powder, poo and Cool Water.

I crave: chocolates!

I search: for that elusive smart outfit in big size!

I wonder: can a relationship indeed be so comfortable and warm!

I regret: not having done a "dekhne-dikhaane" ka programme least once before getting married to my sweetheart of 7 years!

I love: my family, friends and the fact that my smile still reaches my eyes! (modesty?)

I ache: for anyone going through hard times esp children

I care: about environment and the fact that each ONE's action affects our future.

I am not: organised!

I believe: in God and Humanity!

I dance: to all dhinchak hindi numbers! danced too much even at my wedding much to the shock of Northie sasural! ;)

I sing: not too badly! Love the vamp's songs more!

I cry: at drop of the hat! :D more at happy things that fill my heart with so much emotion that i have to cry! weird!

I don’t always: smile! people get shocked when they see my cry the first time! YOU?? Cry?? hehe!

I fight: rarely! When i do its mostly auto waalas with bad meter! ggrrrrrrrr!!

I write: to make memories and have fun!

I win: rarely!

I lose: but I am ok as long as its been a fair play!

I never: manipulate!

I always: am looking for new restaurants to try!

I confuse: huh? what? ;)

I listen: TO my heart!

I can usually be found: smsing or talking!

I am scared: of losing things that matter! and my signature NOT matching when it matters the most! it's horrible not be able to sign consistently! know any classes?

I need: to just be myself!

I lack: ambition

I am happy about: having a guardian angel looking over me all the time! He/ She is too good to be true! :D touchwood!

I tag Bangaloremom, Puja and ~nm