of Food and sacrifice!

These two words usually don't go together in my dictionary. I mean I won't sacrifice my food for anything in this world. I might sacrifice something for good food though... So my first statement does not hold true in that case! ;)


Anyway, my parents and uncles had come over for just 2 days for Cub's birthday (these are the moments you feel totally blessed) and they came loaded with gifts for Cub and food for us. They know us so well! ;) So Cub's favourite Ujoba (also known as Mango-waala aadmi because he sends us hapoos peti every year) got us some salted pistachios. I LOVE salted pista and cashew. Only trouble is no one can eat one and in this case it was impossible to keep track unless you saw the pile of shells in front of you. Then one also remembers making Pista shell flowers for some school year's Diwali homework. (do kids still get that? we would always end up doing it on the last two days of the vacations).


So I decided very enthusiastically that I will eat as many pistachios it would take to make these phools with Cub.


So it was all sacrifice folks! For my child's sake! ;)


And we actually did end up making some and had fun while at it. Cubby painted the shells with me holding them between my fingers. So obviously i had more paint on my fingers than shells had! :D He also helped stick em on the base (which is shoebox flaps) and scribbled the background design. We used bacha hua crepe paper (streamers) from Cub's birthday party to make the handle.


The Plan is to send the final creations to folks as thank you from Cub for making his birthday special!


Here's some photos! :)

Sticking on the petals. Pity we don't have photos when he was painting the shells!

Even when hard at work, there is always time to pose!

Fake smile - part 1. With final creation!

Fake smile - 2. Different pose, same smile. He is MY son! ;)

Trying if it looks nice hung up on our bathroom wall!

The photu without models. Scribbling all over the base done by Cub! :)

Shruti, some day we might be good and enthu enough to participate in Artsy-Crafty! :)

:) THREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

From incoherent words to loooong sentences

From parents saying No to parents getting used to hearing just NOs

From careful walking to running with the wind

From toothy smiles to full blown laughter

From occasional swaying to music to what can almost pass off as dance

From listening to stories to making up your own

From being a fussy eater to being a fussy eater

From liking chocolates to LOVING them

From refusing ice cream to wanting to go to Naturals for your fix

From sleeping in the movie theatre to demanding your share of popcorn and cola

From being offered choices to making those choices

From waiting patiently for us to change you to bringing your night suit including diaper on your own

From getting hugs to giving them

From accepting kisses to avoiding them

From being fed all the meals to trying to eat most of them on your own

From drinking milk with glass to spoon to glass again depending on your mood

From being able to sing your alphabet to being able to recognize half of them

From needing the two of us to drop you to school on bike to standing confidently on your own and even pulling the choke to help my bike start

From being absolutely nuts about Hemmets to have your own Helmet that you wear when we drop you to school

From the Terrible Twos to the Terrifying Threes!!

This year has been full of new discoveries… for all of us! It has been amazing to see you soak everything up like a sponge… good and bad and we keep struggling to find the balance. You mostly delight us with your observations and ability to know the right answers!

You are officially a junkie loving your chips and chocolates, but you get them only when we have guests over or when we are traveling or something.

You have become extremely stubborn often driving me complete and total frustration. I know a lot has to do with the fact that my scolding makes you defy me even more, but I am hoping in this coming year we will be able to find a middle ground.

We had one birthday party for you this Saturday and it was a lot of fun! For us. I hope you enjoyed too. Considering we saw / heard from you ONLY during cake cutting I am guessing you managed to keep yourself busy and had fun! The cake was absolutely gorgeous and the presence of all our friends made it very special. Next year perhaps you will have friends of your own or something and we will have a small do at home.

Happy Birthday Love! You are one of the most amazing kids around! Have a great year ahead and may those shining eyes and the brilliant smile keep enthralling us! :)

Love ya lots and pots! :)

Here are some snapshots of the evening! :)

Accepting his gifts minus the Thank Yous!

Kids getting enthralled by bubbles thoughtfully brought by Richa aunty! :)

Draw the bindi! Much like pin the donkey's tail. Thanks Ramya for the idea! :)

The Birthday Cake! Kingfisher aeopane with all his favourite movie characters grabbing the window seat! :)

The cake cutting and all that jazz! :) Cub had dipped his fingers into it before we could get to cutting it! :p

One for the camera! :)

Kids had a gala time drawing / scribbling on chart papers put up on the walls!

The sole streamer flying along with the fan! :)

Cub - happy to have the whole place for himself!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ONCE AGAIN!!!!!

Much love, hugs, kisses and prayers!

God bless you sweetheart! :)


ps: Most of this stuff was a part of Cub's birthday invite. I just added some more Froms! ;)

a BIDWF and a tag!

just a quick BIDWF moment with the junior jain! :)


Cub turns 3 next month and this time we plan to have a big pahty with everyone we know and care about being there. Past two years we have had quieter affairs and haven't done anything in Bangalore, ever!


So, yesterday on our car ride to a restaurant I asked him "Cub, what cake do you want? An aeroplane? or nemo? Mowgli? Baloo? Sully?" and all the other animated characters he likes. He listens to me for sometime and then says "Nahi! Mujhe sirf chocolate cake chahiye!"


Both M and me burst out laughing and told him that cake will be chocolate only with whatever picture he wants on it! :)


and tonight he asked his father when he was changing him into night suit"I am looking cute, naah?!" HUH?!


Best bud Momo's ma tagged me to talk about My Sins against the gender stereotype.


For the longest time I wanted to be a guy to get all the freedom guys do. I used to be a pucca tomboy and couldn't imagine a different life! But soon I knew i could be the girl i was and yet do what i wanted! Total win-win situation, eh?! :)


I am not into dressing up / make up. Yes, i like my lipstick, but thats it. I dont even know how to apply nail polish on my own! gah!


I have been riding a two wheeler since I was 16 and still LOVE it! Thanks to my Dad who refused to mollycoddle me, I even have a fair bit experience in pushing my two wheeler to the closest service station and getting it repaired! Ofcourse, I am yet to learn to drive and hope to some day!


Maybe because books available at home were my Dad's taste, i have not read a single mills and boons or danielle steele, but devoured the Robin Cooks, John Grishams, Dick Francis Arthur hailey and gang!


I started traveling on my own to Pune by train by the time I was 10 and was traveling by overnight buses to Kolhapur by 12 years.


I wore shorts in my teens much to chagrin of most of our neighbours! I still wear em and dont really care about the neighbours anymore! ;)


I worked super late hours and traveled by myself in trains and cabs.


In both my pregnancies, i managed / am managing my doc visits etc on my own without needing M to accompany me.


I got a tattoo done and did not scream in pain or shed a single tear! :p


I could not cook to save my life till I got married and now both us can churn out a decent meal! :)


I could not be the shy bride even if I wanted to and grinned throughout the ceremonies and later!


i LOVE Tarantino and Guy Ritchie movies including Kill Bill. Ofcos the change in taste happened post shaadi, but am glad for it. So now I can watch mush and dhishum dhishum with equal ease.


I have gotten off my bike to move huge stone in the middle of the road that was causing traffic jam while all men waited for god knows what and giggled when I did it. gah!


I have gone out with all guy gang of friends at 3am for cutting chai and bhurji pav and really miss those days.


and though we never had offcial proposal between us, it was me who initiated "lets be more than friends" with M and hounded him till he married me! I still cry buckets everytime i watch Friends episode where Monica proposes to Chandler. :)


When it comes to living up to the gender norms, I still havent tried learning the whole finance bit and i cry a lot! For good and bad stuff! :D Yet, right now I am comfortable in my skin and enjoying being me!


I think whole world has been tagged with this, so if there is someone who hasn't done it as yet, feel free! :)

Marathi rhymes anyone?! :)

I have never participated in Tulika's blogathon, rather I am still to introduce Cub to the world of Tulika books, though I have been regularly admiring them, reading the reviews and at times buying a few too!


Now that Cub is almost 3 and enjoying being read to much more (and listening to stories without books as well), I hope he will have as much fun with Tulika books!


This is my entry for Tulika Blogathon 4.


I frankly don't remember too many and the ones I seem to remember, I don't think I can translate them. Still picking up the simplest ones!


This one is sang just as a game to tickle to the baby and make him/her laugh.


Ithe Ithe bais re mora (this is sang with one finger dancing on baby's palm)
Baal Deto Chaara(Fold two of baby's l'il fingers)
Chaara Khaa (Fold another two of baby's l'il fingers)
Paani Pee (Fold the last of baby's l'il fingers)
Aani bhoor udun jaa (this is said with fingers running across the length of baby's hand and ends with tickling him/her just under the neck or armpit)

Translation

O peacock, come and sit here
The baby is giving you something to eat
Eat the food
Have some water
and flllyyyy away!


The eternal favourite rain song thats been sang I think forever!


Ye re Ye re pausa
Tula deto paisa
paisa jhaala khota
paus aala motthha!


Ye ga ye ga Sari (sar pronounced like Sir) and it mean a quick but heavy shower of rain)
Majhe madke bhari
Sarr aali dhaaun (Sarr pronounced as Sir and it means a quick but heavy shower of rain)
Madke gele vahoon


Translation


Come Come O rain
I will give you a paisa
The paisa turned out to be fake
Then there was big (heavy) rainfall!


Come come, o rain shower
Fill up my earthen pot
The rain came down in a rush
My pot floated away with it


This one is to teach the kids their relations. Well sort of! :)


Khabdak Khabdak Ghodoaba
Ghodya var basle laadoba
Laadobache laad kartay kon?
Aaji ajoba, maavshya don Translation


Rock Rock, rocking horse
Our l'il darling is riding the horse (laadoba is like laadla/li)
Who is pampering our l'il darling?
Grandma, grandpa and two aunts


You can easily easily replace all these people kaka, kaku, mama and mami and any other relatives one has! :)


This one i didnt remember completely so called Google baba for rescue. pasting the image and will type the translation. This is to teach the baby body parts.

Translation


Little finger
Middle finger like a flower
Palm
Wrist - Elbow
Shoulder - neck - Chin
Mouth (bhataacha (rice) bolka - bolka typically is colloquial for mouth without teeth!)
Pipe to smell (nose)
Kaajal holders (eyes)
God's back
On God's back you hear the chirping of so many birds (this i am absolutely NOT sure of!)


And this last one, I didn't listen to as a kid. Recently came across it and thought it was damn cute!

ek hota zural
chalat hota saral
bus madhe chadhla
tickit nahi kadhla
seat khali lapla
saral ghar ghathla

Translation

Once there was a cockroach
Who was walking real straight
got on to a bus
and didnt buy a ticket
it hid under the seat
and reached straight home!


Phew! This translation business is really tough especially when so much has to do with cultural ethos of that particular time and place. I know I have done a shoddy job by literally translating, but hey this is the best I could do! Not everyone can do an awesome job like Starry and PV!

But this was good fun! Also I really need to check with my mom about what those other few rhymes mean. I know in spirit, but to translate it i need more help! :p

The Cousin Capers!

I am sure for most of us vacations meant long summer days spent with our cousins. Either they coming over to our place or we going over to theirs and getting into all sorts of mischief and fun stuff. I know how much I used to look forward to going to my sisters' home in Kolhapur. Vacations there meant awesome food cooked by mavshi, endless games of cards and board games like Monopoly, learning to cycle, watching movies, listening to ghost stories at night and generally having a blast doing anything or absolutely nothing! :)

Now Cub stays really far from his cousins. His parents don't get the kind of long leaves that allow for real summer vacations and that means his chance to spend time with them comes once in a while and not for more than day or two. But we are greedy with whatever we can get and look forward to these times. We got a small window when we went to Delhi in December last year and an even smaller one just this weekend which went by when the same cousins along with the local first cuz came to stay over with us for a night! We actually abducted them straight from the wedding we were all attending. Watching these kids bond was so much fun! :)

For Mrigs, Cub's first cousin, this was the absolute first time he was spending the night without his parents. Till we were awake and playing (well past midnight mind you), he was alright. But then he wanted to go home and wanted his Mamma. Good thing about this kid is that he listens to reason. M managed to calm him down, showed him Jungle book on TV and played with him till he slept! I think for a first timer he was an absolute rock star!! I hope we can do it more often and he will soon be absolutely comfy! :)

A whole lot of credit for the whole time going smooth goes to M who is SO AWESOME with kids. Me, i just stepped back and played the photographer! So let me just share some of these special memories! :)

All dressed up for Chikki Bua's wedding!

After looking at very dapper Vedu, I so wished I could have dressed Cub also in nice ethnic wear! :)

Outta the nice wedding clothes and into comfy nightsuits! :) Waving on request!

Antz the big sistah DOES mother ALL of em like you see in this photo! Absolute sweetheart! :)

The sharif bacchas doing Jigsaw puzzles at like 1am or something! Mrigs who is not yet 4 does 100 piece puzzles! Whow!

M feeding mrigs milk. Or trying to.

This was the first time Mrigs had plain milk with sugar since his ma gives him flavouyred milk. Only thing he had to say when initially offered sugarless milk was "Milk tastes weird in your house!" And next morning when M was pushing Cub to finish his milk, Mrigs came to his rescue saying "Why are you forcing him if he doesn't want to?! Let him be!" Needless to say M has been verry zapped! hehe!

I have no idea why i bothered putting 5 more gaddas! Really!!

The Morning After! :D I was getting calls from worried parents.

Morning camel rides, anyone?! :)

Once they began, there was no stopping em, was there?!

Till cycle came to M's rescue. (thats our terrace btw)

They sweetly took turns ofcos! :)

and then moved to my trusty Dio! :) No we didnt travel like this! ;)

They ate at McDonalds and then danced on the stage at Central! The song was favourite All Izz Well! :)

Thank you Antz, Vedu and Mrigs for such lovely memories! And to their brave parents too! Let's do this more often, shall we?! :)

it is time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Photo from my Bumpy time in my last few weeks before he became Cubby! :)


to bring out this Tee again!


Yup! Some people never learn from their mistakes, do they?! Hehe!


We are mighty thrilled ofcos. The news or what is traditionally called "good" news was wanted yet unexpected making the whole thing even sweeter!


I found out only at 10weeks! Did a home test because I couldn't see my toes too well! :p am glad its pregnancy weight gain wonly! haha! It l'il over 12 weeks now and I am glad I had to keep this news in my tummy only for 2 weeks. Ofcos i told a whole of people as soon as i found out! ;)


Cubby is still trying to figure out concept of 2B (yes that's what baby is being called! Bumpy 2 was what was on Papa's mind, but I read it as To-be as well!)


Cub does hug my tummy and kiss it when requested but I am still not sure how cool he is with the idea! Only time will tell i guess! :) But we do say Thank You, Bhaiyya from 2B every single time and now he has come t expect it in return of the kisses!


So keep us in your thoughts and prayers and wish us luck!! :)


Cheers!

the Translator is here!!

and no, its the Google baba's translator I am talking about here!


We have been in Bangalore for sometime now, but the local language Kannada has eluded us. I do understand a smattering of it now. Between my Kannada and Amma's Hindi, we usually manage OK. But it is still far cry from being enough to have decent conversation or even fight with auto guy or give cabbie directions. M is even worse and his knowledge is far from even basic. Not that mine is any better, but still! * Note to self: Attend those conversational Kannada classes!


Cubby has been getting more and more proficient in the state language though and it is almost as strong as his Hindi, which is pretty good if you ask me. Amma is usually singing praises about how he speaks perfect Kannada etc. But how are we to know?! :p


So yesterday M was telling Amma to put Cub's latest fav Winnie bedsheet and pillow cover (recently gifted to him) on his gadda and put him to sleep. Amma was trying to explain something to M which he could not figure out for life of him. Amma's DiL whose Hindi is marginally better tried to pitch in and explain it too. She did her best and told M "Woh abhi thanda (cold) hai!"


Cubby exasperated by this lack of proper communication decided it is time to step in and do the needful. He told M" Woh bol rahi hai - It is WET!"


M couldn't stop laughing and neither could I when he told me about the incident!


So our l'il translator is here and we fear auto guys a little less now! ;)